SSL write failures may not reset the connection in the write phase

As part of sending the IO vector a connection reset may get lost if one of the individual methods to send the data fails (this will most likely end up in a protocol error causing the client to disconnect at a later time)

The code to send data looks like:

   for (int ii = 0; ii < int(m->msg_iovlen); ++ii) {

            int n = sslWrite(reinterpret_cast<char*>(m->msg_iov[ii].iov_base),

                             m->msg_iov[ii].iov_len);

            if (n > 0) {

                res += n;

            } else {

                return res > 0 ? res : -1;

            }

        }

If we're able to send something over SSL we won't reset the connection as the -1 isn'tpropagated to the caller and we'll continue our state machinery (and might try to read or write to the socket again).