Windows - Update wheel build system to dynamically link OpenSSL

The 4.0 release provided Windows wheels, but the OpenSSL libraries were included as a part of the wheel. We do not want to handle the OpenSSL dependency in this manner. Instead, we should dynamically link against OpenSSL libraries (libssl-* and libcrypto-*) and allow the user, if needed, to point to the location of the OpenSSL libraries. Ideally the SDK will locate the OpenSSL libraries as needed.

Note there was a change in Python 3.8 that change the manner to which DLL dependencies for extension modules are resolved. See here and here for reference.

This has an impact in how we solve the OpenSSL dependency.